Reply: Right now you know only what someone has told you about this man. I feel it is pointless to give up something you want to do, solely based on hearsay. The only way that you can find out more about this man is by having some kind of a relationship with him. My advice to you is to establish a normal friendship with him at first, in order to get to know him well. After a while, if you really like him you can move on to a romantic relationship.

–Nuha.